A Week of Virtual Learning, Here’s What I’ve Learned….

Families in the Bay Area learned rather abruptly last week that their kids’ schools were closed and moving to online learning. Things may look very different depending on what kind of school you are at, how old your kids are, and what kind of support they need to get work done. I think my kids woke up on Monday thinking this was a “vacation” from school and as a parent I followed some of the guidelines I read from parents in Italy about being flexible and forgiving. On Monday, I found myself hours down a Coronavirus Media rabbit hole not getting much work done, my sophomore didn’t wake up til noon, we’ve all learned quickly that some routine and structure are necessary.

As parents, my advice echoes the message I received from my high schoolers’ principal–lean in to this experience. Show your kids that you are interested and want to support them, and look at yourself as a partner in this learning. Ask them what kind of work they’ve been assigned, what they are expected to do and have them show you the work they are turning in.

As for students, here’s what I think is helpful for virtual learning:

Routine
While you may not need to catch the bus to school, or be up early to get a ride with your carpool, structure is necessary. Sleep in a bit, but give yourself a “school day”. I’ve found for my older kids they are getting through their work in less time than a normal day, but having a place to do work and at a consistent time is key. I have written about my love of the pomodoro method, and I strongly recommend it for my students. Doing works in blocks of 25 minutes on and 5 minutes off (this might be longer if you are taking a virtual class) is a great way to tackle work.

Comprehension
Right now, there is so much uncertainty around exams and grades. So much is up in the air; but what is more important is that you are understanding the material you are studying and staying on top of it. Even if your tests don’t happen, you should be preparing and studying like they are happening. Your teachers are available to you; email them if you need help or have questions. I’ve also been so pleasantly surprised with all the online learning that is available and free to students. While the circumstances are topsy turvy, it doesn’t mean you are off the hook for learning and doing your job as a student.

Stay in touch
Reach out to friends, family, teachers, your counselor (cough cough). While we are all physically distanced, keeping up with your community is critical. Do you have a friend who you know struggles in your chem class? Has the girl who sits behind you in math been quiet in your google hangout? This is the time to connect. I’ve seen such creative zoom sessions with my kids-I know this is a challenging time, but get creative with your connectivity.

Move!
Just because we are home doesn’t mean you can’t get outside. The sun has been out today and your dog might desperately need a walk. Go for a hike with your mom or dad, or do some yoga at home.

I’m sure next week will come with more observations – I’ll be in touch with more updates as we continue to be home bound.